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 ====== Narcissism ====== ====== Narcissism ======
  
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 Narcissism exists on a continuum that ranges from normal to abnormal personality expression. Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD)[(NPD>Narcissistic personality disorder[[https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Narcissistic_personality_disorder|Wikipedia]])] is a personality disorder that is characterized by an excessive sense of self-importance, a lack of empathy for others, and a need for admiration. It is often associated with an inflated ego, a sense of entitlement, and a preoccupation with fantasies of power, success, and attractiveness. Narcissism is thought to be a result of a combination of genetic, environmental, and cultural factors, and it tends to manifest in early adulthood. Narcissism exists on a continuum that ranges from normal to abnormal personality expression. Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD)[(NPD>Narcissistic personality disorder[[https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Narcissistic_personality_disorder|Wikipedia]])] is a personality disorder that is characterized by an excessive sense of self-importance, a lack of empathy for others, and a need for admiration. It is often associated with an inflated ego, a sense of entitlement, and a preoccupation with fantasies of power, success, and attractiveness. Narcissism is thought to be a result of a combination of genetic, environmental, and cultural factors, and it tends to manifest in early adulthood.
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 +<blockquote>You will often hear people say, 'Oh, I'm very narcissistic,' or, 'It was a wound to my narcissism.' Such comments are not a true recognition of the condition; they are throw-away lines. To really recognize narcissism in oneself is profoundly distressing and often associated with denial.
 +<cite> Symington, Neville - "Narcissism: A New Theory" [( :harvard:Symington2013>>
 +authors   : Symington, Neville
 +title     : Narcissism: A New Theory
 +publisher : Routledge
 +published : 2013
 +pages : 10
 +isbn      : 978-1855750470
 +url       : https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Special:BookSources/978-1855750470
 +)]
 +</cite>
 +</blockquote>
  
 People with narcissistic personality disorder tend to have a distorted sense of their own importance, believing that they are special or unique and that they should be treated differently from others. They may have an exaggerated sense of their own achievements and talents, and they may expect to be recognized as superior, even when their accomplishments do not warrant it. They may also have an exaggerated sense of entitlement, believing that they deserve special treatment and that the rules do not apply to them. People with narcissistic personality disorder tend to have a distorted sense of their own importance, believing that they are special or unique and that they should be treated differently from others. They may have an exaggerated sense of their own achievements and talents, and they may expect to be recognized as superior, even when their accomplishments do not warrant it. They may also have an exaggerated sense of entitlement, believing that they deserve special treatment and that the rules do not apply to them.
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 ===== DARVO ===== ===== DARVO =====
  
-DARVO[(DARVO>DARVO[[https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/|Wikipedia]])] stands for Deny, Attack, and Reverse Victim and Offender. It is a tactic that is sometimes used by perpetrators of abuse or wrongdoing in order to deflect blame and avoid accountability for their actions.+DARVO[(DARVO>DARVO[[https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/DARVO|Wikipedia]])] stands for Deny, Attack, and Reverse Victim and Offender. It is a tactic that is sometimes used by perpetrators of abuse or wrongdoing in order to deflect blame and avoid accountability for their actions.
  
 In a DARVO response, the perpetrator may first deny that the abuse or wrongdoing took place. They may claim that the victim is lying or mistaken, or that the events in question never happened. They may also attack the victim's character or credibility, in an attempt to make the victim appear untrustworthy or unreliable. In a DARVO response, the perpetrator may first deny that the abuse or wrongdoing took place. They may claim that the victim is lying or mistaken, or that the events in question never happened. They may also attack the victim's character or credibility, in an attempt to make the victim appear untrustworthy or unreliable.
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 Gaslighting can be especially damaging because it can cause the victim to doubt their own perceptions and experiences, leading to feelings of confusion, self-doubt, and anxiety. It is important to be aware of the signs of gaslighting and to seek support if you are being subjected to this form of manipulation. Gaslighting can be especially damaging because it can cause the victim to doubt their own perceptions and experiences, leading to feelings of confusion, self-doubt, and anxiety. It is important to be aware of the signs of gaslighting and to seek support if you are being subjected to this form of manipulation.
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 +== List of common gaslighting techniques ==
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 +Gaslighters have many techniques [(Gaslighting>Gaslighting Definition, Techniques and Being Gaslighted[[https://www.healthyplace.com/abuse/emotional-psychological-abuse/gaslighting-definition-techniques-and-being-gaslighted|HealthyPlace]])] (Common gaslighting techniques|Wikipedia CCSA 3.0) [(Common_gaslighting_techniques>Common gaslighting techniques[[https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gaslighting#Common_gaslighting_techniques|Wikipedia]])] highlighting the comorbidity of narcissism with the other dark tetrade traits machiavelism and sadism:
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 +  * Obfuscation – Abuser deliberately obfuscates an issue.
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 +  * Withholding – Abuser pretends not to understand the victim.
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 +  * Countering – Abuser will vehemently call into question a victim's memory in spite of the victim having remembered things correctly.
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 +  * Blocking and diverting – Abuser changes the conversation from the subject matter to questioning the victim's thoughts and controlling the conversation. 
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 +  * Trivializing – Abuser makes the victim believe his or her thoughts or needs are not important.
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 +  * Forgetting and denial – Abuser pretends to forget things that have really occurred; the abuser may deny or delay things like promises that are important to the victim. Although anyone can deny or delay, the gaslighter does it regularly in the absence of real external limitations. The gaslighter may make up or create artificial barriers to allow themselves to deny or delay that which is important to the victim.
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 ===== Well known / Public Figures in Narcissism ====== ===== Well known / Public Figures in Narcissism ======
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 Gunderson also argued that the DSM-IV criteria for narcissistic personality disorder were too broad and that they did not adequately capture the complexity of narcissistic behavior. He argued that the criteria should be more specific and should take into account the different subtypes of narcissism, such as grandiose and vulnerable narcissism. Gunderson also argued that the DSM-IV criteria for narcissistic personality disorder were too broad and that they did not adequately capture the complexity of narcissistic behavior. He argued that the criteria should be more specific and should take into account the different subtypes of narcissism, such as grandiose and vulnerable narcissism.
  
-Overall, Gunderson's criticisms highlight the need for more nuanced and specific criteria for diagnosing narcissistic personality disorder, in order to better understand and treat this complex and often misunderstood disorder.+Overall, Gunderson's criticisms highlight the need for more nuanced and specific criteria for diagnosing narcissistic personality disorder, in order to better understand and treat this complex and often misunderstood disorder.[(GundersonNYT>A Fate That Narcissists Will Hate: Being Ignored[[https://www.nytimes.com/2010/11/30/health/views/30mind.html|NY Times]])] 
  
  
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 In 2018, he founded the Surviving Narcissism, which includes the Surviving Narcissism YouTube channel[(SurvivingNarcissism>Surviving Narcissism YouTube channel[[https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIELB1mz8wMKIhB6DCmTBlw|Youtube]])] and the Dr. Les Carter YouTube channel[(LesCarter>Dr. Les Carter YouTube channel[[https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZltLphbGES9winlzROiWLw|Youtube]])]. In addition to his writing and speaking, he also maintains a private practice in Dallas, Texas, where he helps individuals and couples dealing with narcissistic personality disorder and other mental health issues. In 2018, he founded the Surviving Narcissism, which includes the Surviving Narcissism YouTube channel[(SurvivingNarcissism>Surviving Narcissism YouTube channel[[https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIELB1mz8wMKIhB6DCmTBlw|Youtube]])] and the Dr. Les Carter YouTube channel[(LesCarter>Dr. Les Carter YouTube channel[[https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZltLphbGES9winlzROiWLw|Youtube]])]. In addition to his writing and speaking, he also maintains a private practice in Dallas, Texas, where he helps individuals and couples dealing with narcissistic personality disorder and other mental health issues.
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