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-{{tag>Related Believes "Robert Dilts" "Steve Andreas" NLP "Clean language"}} +{{tag>Related Believes "Robert Dilts" "Steve Andreas" NLP "Clean language" "Transactional Analysis" "Non-Violent Communication" }} 
 ====== Modal Verbs ====== ====== Modal Verbs ======
  
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-If you do the second variant, you can eventually get a (problematic?) C-Value identity statement like:+If you do the second variant, you can eventually get a negative Core-Value (C-Value) statement like:
 Lack of value: “I'm not worthy.”, Lack of value: “I'm not worthy.”,
 Lack of authenticity: “I'm a fraud,” “I'm fake.”, Lack of authenticity: “I'm a fraud,” “I'm fake.”,
 Lack of ability: “I'm no good.”, or do a lack, wants, needs and or the Patterns. Lack of ability: “I'm no good.”, or do a lack, wants, needs and or the Patterns.
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 Cave: For both ways it is necessary to have a very agreeable person, high status and or good rapport unless you want to train for three stage overreactions. This isn't easy for most clients, especially if it involves very shameful emotions, you may want to use more indirect means. Cave: For both ways it is necessary to have a very agreeable person, high status and or good rapport unless you want to train for three stage overreactions. This isn't easy for most clients, especially if it involves very shameful emotions, you may want to use more indirect means.
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 +<blockquote>With IEMT you can ask "When did you decide that?"/"When did you learn that?" If there's a memory you can do the K pattern movement or explore the identity bits of the statement
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 > MOs indicate a situation that does not (at the moment) exist (future orientation).  > MOs indicate a situation that does not (at the moment) exist (future orientation). 
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 > Verbally expressed MOs may be incongruent to the (more important) nonverbal [[physiological_state_accessing_cues_psacs|Physiological State Accessing Cues (PSACS)]].  > Verbally expressed MOs may be incongruent to the (more important) nonverbal [[physiological_state_accessing_cues_psacs|Physiological State Accessing Cues (PSACS)]]. 
  
-> MOs can lead to correspondent Three Pillar like cycles we can explore.+> MOs can lead to correspondent Three Pillar like cycles and C-Values we can explore. 
 ===== Practical Application in Non Violent Communication ===== ===== Practical Application in Non Violent Communication =====
  
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 CL offers an exercise to directly work with statements like these: CL offers an exercise to directly work with statements like these:
  
-(1) identify a metaphor for when you are angry and act inappropriately as a result;\\ +  - identify a metaphor for when you are angry and act inappropriately as a result;\\ 
-(2) identify a second metaphor for how you would prefer to respond;\\ +  - identify a second metaphor for how you would prefer to respond;\\ 
-(3) explore how you can convert or evolve the first metaphor into the second;\\ +  - explore how you can convert or evolve the first metaphor into the second;\\ 
-(4) translate your insights into how you can change your behavior in your everyday life;\\ +  - translate your insights into how you can change your behavior in your everyday life;\\ 
-(5) rehearse this new behavior.+  - rehearse this new behavior.
  
 For a more in depth exploration please refer to:  For a more in depth exploration please refer to: 
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 In Transactional Analysis, a modal operator (MO) of necessity, such as "must" or "should," often signals the start of a psychological game when the implied rule or expectation is broken, as it triggers a shift into the Drama Triangle roles of Persecutor, Victim, or Rescuer.  In Transactional Analysis, a modal operator (MO) of necessity, such as "must" or "should," often signals the start of a psychological game when the implied rule or expectation is broken, as it triggers a shift into the Drama Triangle roles of Persecutor, Victim, or Rescuer. 
  
-> From the point of IEMT all three roles are imprints. If you assign a certain feeling to each role you have a three pillars cycle.+> From the point of IEMT all three roles are imprints. If you assign a certain feeling to each role you can analyse the emotional chaining.
  
 ==== Analyzing "I Should Not Get Angry" in Transactional Analysis Using the Drama Triangle ==== ==== Analyzing "I Should Not Get Angry" in Transactional Analysis Using the Drama Triangle ====
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