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-{{tag>Related Believes "Robert Dilts" "Steve Andreas" NLP "Clean language"}} +{{tag>Related Believes "Robert Dilts" "Steve Andreas" NLP "Clean language" "Transactional Analysis" "Non-Violent Communication" }} 
 ====== Modal Verbs ====== ====== Modal Verbs ======
  
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-==== Practical Application in IEMT ====+===== Practical Application in IEMT =====
  
 These linguistic markers often reveal underlying beliefs and cognitive patterns that shape an individual's emotional responses and behaviors – or in IEMT terms an imprint. By paying close attention to these markers during sessions, practitioners can uncover deep-seated imprints—specific memories and emotional events that significantly influence current issues.  These linguistic markers often reveal underlying beliefs and cognitive patterns that shape an individual's emotional responses and behaviors – or in IEMT terms an imprint. By paying close attention to these markers during sessions, practitioners can uncover deep-seated imprints—specific memories and emotional events that significantly influence current issues. 
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-If you do the second variant, you can eventually get a (problematic?) C-Value identity statement like:+If you do the second variant, you can eventually get a negative Core-Value (C-Value) statement like:
 Lack of value: “I'm not worthy.”, Lack of value: “I'm not worthy.”,
 Lack of authenticity: “I'm a fraud,” “I'm fake.”, Lack of authenticity: “I'm a fraud,” “I'm fake.”,
 Lack of ability: “I'm no good.”, or do a lack, wants, needs and or the Patterns. Lack of ability: “I'm no good.”, or do a lack, wants, needs and or the Patterns.
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 Cave: For both ways it is necessary to have a very agreeable person, high status and or good rapport unless you want to train for three stage overreactions. This isn't easy for most clients, especially if it involves very shameful emotions, you may want to use more indirect means. Cave: For both ways it is necessary to have a very agreeable person, high status and or good rapport unless you want to train for three stage overreactions. This isn't easy for most clients, especially if it involves very shameful emotions, you may want to use more indirect means.
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 +<blockquote>With IEMT you can ask "When did you decide that?"/"When did you learn that?" If there's a memory you can do the K pattern movement or explore the identity bits of the statement
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 > MOs indicate a situation that does not (at the moment) exist (future orientation).  > MOs indicate a situation that does not (at the moment) exist (future orientation). 
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 > Verbally expressed MOs may be incongruent to the (more important) nonverbal [[physiological_state_accessing_cues_psacs|Physiological State Accessing Cues (PSACS)]].  > Verbally expressed MOs may be incongruent to the (more important) nonverbal [[physiological_state_accessing_cues_psacs|Physiological State Accessing Cues (PSACS)]]. 
  
-> MOs can lead to correspondent Three Pillar like cycles we can explore. +> MOs can lead to correspondent Three Pillar like cycles and C-Values we can explore. 
-==== Practical Application in Non Violent Communication ====+ 
 +===== Practical Application in Non Violent Communication =====
  
 <blockquote>We are never angry because of what others say or do; it is a result of our own 'should' thinking. <blockquote>We are never angry because of what others say or do; it is a result of our own 'should' thinking.
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-===How 'Should' Thinking Leads to Anger through the NVC lens===+====How 'Should' Thinking Leads to Anger through the NVC lens====
 //Unmet Expectations//: //Unmet Expectations//:
  
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-==== Practical Application in Clean Language ====+===== Practical Application in Clean Language =====
  
 In Clean Language(CL)[([[https://cleanlanguage.com/|Clean Language]])] as often reflect deep-seated beliefs and emotional states. Understanding the use of these modal operators in dialogue can help individuals identify and change their metaphors for more positive outcomes. For example: In Clean Language(CL)[([[https://cleanlanguage.com/|Clean Language]])] as often reflect deep-seated beliefs and emotional states. Understanding the use of these modal operators in dialogue can help individuals identify and change their metaphors for more positive outcomes. For example:
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 CL offers an exercise to directly work with statements like these: CL offers an exercise to directly work with statements like these:
  
-(1) identify a metaphor for when you are angry and act inappropriately as a result;\\ +  - identify a metaphor for when you are angry and act inappropriately as a result;\\ 
-(2) identify a second metaphor for how you would prefer to respond;\\ +  - identify a second metaphor for how you would prefer to respond;\\ 
-(3) explore how you can convert or evolve the first metaphor into the second;\\ +  - explore how you can convert or evolve the first metaphor into the second;\\ 
-(4) translate your insights into how you can change your behavior in your everyday life;\\ +  - translate your insights into how you can change your behavior in your everyday life;\\ 
-(5) rehearse this new behavior.+  - rehearse this new behavior.
  
 For a more in depth exploration please refer to:  For a more in depth exploration please refer to: 
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-==== Practical Application in NLP ==== +===== Practical Application in NLP ===== 
-=== Steve Andreas ===+==== Steve Andreas ====
 Steve Andreas writes [(:harvard:Andreas2001)]:\\ “A MO, like accessing cues, is both a result of internal processing, and also a way to elicit it. Asking a person to say, “I won’t” rather than “I can’t,” was one of [[Fritz_Perls|Fritz Perls]], favorite ways to get people to take more responsibility for the implicit choices that they made, and feel more empowered by recognizing their ability to choose. Steve Andreas writes [(:harvard:Andreas2001)]:\\ “A MO, like accessing cues, is both a result of internal processing, and also a way to elicit it. Asking a person to say, “I won’t” rather than “I can’t,” was one of [[Fritz_Perls|Fritz Perls]], favorite ways to get people to take more responsibility for the implicit choices that they made, and feel more empowered by recognizing their ability to choose.
  
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-=== Robert Dilts: Changing Belief Systems With NLP ===+==== Robert Dilts: Changing Belief Systems With NLP ====
  
 With Robert Dilts'[([[http://www.robertdilts.com/|RobertDilts.com]])] System you can work with these kind of statements like a belief. His Belief Change Process is a systematic approach within Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) aimed at identifying, understanding, and altering **limiting beliefs** that hinder personal growth and achievement. Developed by Dilts, this process is designed to facilitate deep, lasting change by addressing the core beliefs that shape an individual's behavior and experiences. With Robert Dilts'[([[http://www.robertdilts.com/|RobertDilts.com]])] System you can work with these kind of statements like a belief. His Belief Change Process is a systematic approach within Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) aimed at identifying, understanding, and altering **limiting beliefs** that hinder personal growth and achievement. Developed by Dilts, this process is designed to facilitate deep, lasting change by addressing the core beliefs that shape an individual's behavior and experiences.
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 In Transactional Analysis, a modal operator (MO) of necessity, such as "must" or "should," often signals the start of a psychological game when the implied rule or expectation is broken, as it triggers a shift into the Drama Triangle roles of Persecutor, Victim, or Rescuer.  In Transactional Analysis, a modal operator (MO) of necessity, such as "must" or "should," often signals the start of a psychological game when the implied rule or expectation is broken, as it triggers a shift into the Drama Triangle roles of Persecutor, Victim, or Rescuer. 
  
-> From the point of IEMT all three roles are imprints. If you assign a certain feeling to each role you have a three pillars cycle.+> From the point of IEMT all three roles are imprints. If you assign a certain feeling to each role you can analyse the emotional chaining.
  
 ==== Analyzing "I Should Not Get Angry" in Transactional Analysis Using the Drama Triangle ==== ==== Analyzing "I Should Not Get Angry" in Transactional Analysis Using the Drama Triangle ====
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